Your Ex: Lover or Hater?

How many of you are friends with your ex? How many of you still keep in contact with your ex? Is it so wrong to actually be friends with your ex? Why are people dissing the idea that you can be friends with your ex even after a break up?

A "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" is a friend that you have an intimate relationship with. So it would have been a relationship that meant for then a normal friend once upon a time. Does that mean that once the "intimacy" is gone you still can't be friends? I object!

Alright so your ex dumped you for another person, so your ex was an ass or a bitch, so your ex lied or treated you badly. You have every right to cease all communication with that person but that is up to an individual. You can't go around dissing other people just because they're still friends with their ex. If you're a friend you should just respect maybe there's a reason for them being friends. You wouldn't know, right? So you should let it be.

Each & everyone of us think & act differently. You can never judge a person on how they think all you can do is just give advices or guidelines the rest is up to them. If you think that your friend is doing or acting foolishly just advice don't go tell them "you should stop doing that because I don't like it & it's plain dumb". Nah nah!! You should just tell them that what they're doing is wrong & guide them the right way out. That's a right way. Obviously you got to be nice in telling not sound like you're ordering them to do something.

Question of the day: What are you going to do if 5 years from now you would have to work in the same company with that ass of an ex? Are you going to keep that hatred towards the person over a matter that was 5 years old? Think about it. =)