09/09/09 = Mad Dog's Day

Today is my day! 9 in cantonese means Dog. My dear haler calls me Mad Dog because my jersey is No.9 & I'm always crazy in other words entertaining. So yes it might seem degrading but it's all in the world of fun. Each & everyone of us has a nickname. Hence, Mad dog is one of those nicknames I have.

How has your 09/09/09 been? Mine was awesome. A wonderful day. Nothing crazy I did but I wished I did. This day wouldn't come anymore. So yes live it whilst you can. Good news was the headlines for today & I'm getting myself a new handset just because I want it. Now I wished I had a brand new car too. A honda civic would be nice. =)

Your Ex: Lover or Hater?

How many of you are friends with your ex? How many of you still keep in contact with your ex? Is it so wrong to actually be friends with your ex? Why are people dissing the idea that you can be friends with your ex even after a break up?

A "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" is a friend that you have an intimate relationship with. So it would have been a relationship that meant for then a normal friend once upon a time. Does that mean that once the "intimacy" is gone you still can't be friends? I object!

Alright so your ex dumped you for another person, so your ex was an ass or a bitch, so your ex lied or treated you badly. You have every right to cease all communication with that person but that is up to an individual. You can't go around dissing other people just because they're still friends with their ex. If you're a friend you should just respect maybe there's a reason for them being friends. You wouldn't know, right? So you should let it be.

Each & everyone of us think & act differently. You can never judge a person on how they think all you can do is just give advices or guidelines the rest is up to them. If you think that your friend is doing or acting foolishly just advice don't go tell them "you should stop doing that because I don't like it & it's plain dumb". Nah nah!! You should just tell them that what they're doing is wrong & guide them the right way out. That's a right way. Obviously you got to be nice in telling not sound like you're ordering them to do something.

Question of the day: What are you going to do if 5 years from now you would have to work in the same company with that ass of an ex? Are you going to keep that hatred towards the person over a matter that was 5 years old? Think about it. =)

Work & Pleasure = Never Mix

Life has been pretty good these days. Looking back at the months I've completely forgotten about the other joys of life beside dating is devastating. Wake up call has been rung. Tada! I used to be a person who makes work with pleasure. I was an imbecile & naive at that time. After a wake up call was rung I finally realize that it wasn't the best choice nor the right move.

Hey! Everyone has to learn from their mistakes, right. What stupid thing to do if you don't learn from your mistakes. We all make mistakes & that is the fact of life. We learn from it & become a much better person because we know where we went wrong. Mixing work with pleasure is a really bad thing. You get things really topsy-turvy if you made the wrong move. Hence, try not to do all that.

I learned it & now putting it into practice. Sometimes we all need to grow up we can always be kids but at times we just need to act maturely. =) But acting like someone you're not is really a put-off. So try not to stray too much from your original character because it may hurt people & sometimes cause people to look with you with a sneer.

On another note, foot reflexology after futsal is awesome. It's like swimming on a hot sunny day. That's how refreshing it is. Why foot reflexology all of sudden? Well today is my first time. Let's say i'm a virgin to professional massages but I'm no longer am. Cool! Thanks to my cousin who paid for it which made much more awesome I am no longer a massage virgin. =)

1 Malaysia

I'm the tomboy who plays multiple sports with a chinese name, a malay face, speaks english but has a malay accent when spoken to in malay, sadly no chinese is in my vocab & I come from a multiracial family.

I AM MALAYSIAN

Going uphill

Life is like a journey up to Bukit Tinggi,

It is a zig-zag road that could make your head spin 360 degrees,

At some points a blind spot would appear & you wouldn't 

be able to see what is ahead of you.

Life is a journey uphill.

Yesterday was my first journey up to the hills. My first journey driving I meant. It was awesomely cool & would love to do it again. Although the air wasn't as chilly as it used to be but the company was awesome. There wasn't much to do in Bukit Tinggi. We only went up to just walk but soon got chased out because there weren't pets allowed in the resort. Pfft! So much for a "french themed" resort. My arse! Next time you should put up a BANNER to state "NO PETS ALLOWED". How could you be a french themed resort when you do not allow pets to enter yet again sit at the restaurant. The french are famous for bringing their pets around even to dine with them. Pfft! What bull shit!

Merdeka this year wasn't as colourful as previous years. So much for "1 Malaysia". Everyone is basically paranoid about H1N1. =(